A Full 360

Did u guys catch last nite 360 on TV3? I guess most of u guys did & i think it was a good coverage of what youth are up to nowadays.. 

Being a parent makes u wonder, what the world brings to my little one. And frankly, being out and about KL almost every weekends makes me worry of how and what is the environment that my little hero gonna grow up in.. Loafing (lepak) or hanging out is one of the main activities of teenage nowadays.. Its not only during weekend, its almost every single day.. 

360 interviewed a number of teenage not forgetting an old guy stranded (homeless) on the roadside due to his 'experience' in being a lepak-king during his younger age.. How does his so-called frens made him the way he is today.. One word to reply to his comments - YOURSELF!!

I guess ur not smart enuf as a parent to trust ur kid with their time and company.. Know why? Coz their kids, easy and simple as that.. They dunno and dun have the any idea what their up against.. Whether is the warth of ur parents blabbing all day or the nice and comfort joy being amongst ur frens (which of course, will drag u into a hell of a future).. A kid answered on last nite's show that they wanna loaf like forever.. And the not-so-impressed reporter kinda jump (if u noticed) by asking him back "abis, nak jadi apa?!"... I got an answer to that, JADI MONYET!! Nauzubillah.. Jauhkan lah dari anak² aku (eh anak² eh?)... Kids just wanna have fun (not just girls!).. So they dun think much, they just follow and do.. 

Now.. Parents, as a kid growing during the good old days.. I was restricted to house arrest almost every day of my freaking life.. But that was then, i got out only when i got my chance to further my study.. Again, that was then.. Now, there's too much nonsence going around in our streets, TV, magazines and as well as movies.. So, trying stuff, doing things and being such an a**hole, is pretty much what kids wanna do right now.. 

Parents, my opinion as a growing parent.. Its not harmful to let teachers or tutor or frens and even neighbours to tell ur kids of. If its true that what their doing is wrong.. People around us are looking for the best interest in everyone, particularly the future of our nation. And being parents u might have to agree with me that these kids will shape that nation. Being caned or punished by their teacher is normal. I used to be caned in the backside for skipping class and lepak in the gardeners hut.. haha yeah, aku berkawan dengan pakcik kebun!! And i dun go back running to my mom coz i know that i'm gonna get additional caning for that.. Yeah!? u got the same south lioness as a mother? And when i get the a** whooping by my mom, i dun go running to daddy for mercy coz he'll give me the thumb (not finger..).. Coz, he knows that what my mom did was for the best of myself.. 

See, myself, i dun give Faleeq any space.. Even if he's just 1 yo.. Kan ku jentik, marah, tengking and even give him the dun-mess-with-me-boy look if he wun listen to instruction.. Its no harm to start teaching ur kid discipline from young.. Yela, org melayu selalu ckp MELENTUR BULUH BIAR DARI REBUNGNYA.. Am i right? 

So, knowing kids nowadays, they dun watch 360 and say, 'hey, what i'm doing is wrong'.. They'd go 'hey, i'm on tv' or 'hey, he's right we need more freedom' and maybe even 'hey, cool huh getting to sleep on the roadside like that?'... So i guess parents have to step in and take charge.. Geram aku tengok 360 semalam, mcm nak pelempang je budak² yg kena interview tu.. 

Praying to Allah that my kids grow up as a human being, succesful.. 

Ibu's Laundry

Things to do:

1. View shop lot - Friday (13.11.09)
2. License application - ongoing
3. Machines - ongoing
4. Workers - null...!!

Anybody wants to work? Full time shopkeeper needed... Help!!

3 Years Now

Well, its been 3 years since we are married.. We're celebrating our anniversary tommorow and still i haven't found the suitable place to celebrate due to the last minute cancelation by a 3rd party.. Yela, mana ada org nak ambil lagi..? Dah last minit mcm ni... Hamkaleng!!

Anyway, Elliz has a full wiken later on with her sports carnival etc.. So, i guess the only thing to do is to postpone..? huh? That doesn't sound right.. Postpone an anniversary celebration? I'll figure something out..

Anyway, laundry bar has a few hickups.. 5 weeks to process a license application? Huh? Why 5? Why not take a month without the excess week? Well, i guess when ur use to be there then things seem to make a little sense.. Rather than the people out there who dunno a thing!! They simply throw stones at u hoping that the process would be sped up..

After a while, i get use to the on the road thing.. Hey..! I haven't made clearence at the old office.. CC mesti angin sama gwe... Waduh2! Gwe nggak senghaja sih.. Mau ke sana capek sih.. Jauh..! For those at BSM KKM, please send my regards to bonda CC.. Bilang sama ibu cc, nanti gwe sampei.. Loh jgn lupa pesan gwe..! Later i'll come, too precious those things in my 'little' box.. I just hope that u guys are doing well without me, kinda miss hanging out with u guys gossiping about people and stuff...! hahaha

Ok, bout the last post.. I am still in anger..! Bodo siak budak yg bawak mulut tu.. Ko ingat dunia ni ko yg punya? Ati aku ni surat khabar ke ko nak renyuk then pijak2? Telinga aku ni kuih taram yg ko boleh kunyah pada petang raya pertama? It shows that some people dun grow up... Really!! Seriously..! I'm no more interested in all the bu**s**t that u have to say.. Say it.. Oh ya..! U have the whole week to do ur CNN thing with the guys meeting up for PTK.. Right? Aku bagi ko peluang ni.. Coz realize it or not, i believe i have more friends in that circle than u have in a life time...!

How Nice

Been a while since my last post.. Dah lama merantau so tak dapek la nak update menda ni.. Spent most of my time on the road going here and there...

Well, terpanggil lak aku nak update hari ni.. nak cari mana tempat yg bleh aku xs blog kesayangan aku ni... I just dun understand. Today i got a very disturbing news about me.. LOtsa rumors have been going around lately about meself.. Nice ones? I dun think so.. But i know where'd come from and who's the mulut pantat celaka tu.. I just dun understand what with u guys? Dun u ever stop ur ramblings about other people.. Yg tengah pregnant tu ingat la anak dlm perot tu.. Yg baru dapat baby, anak ko tu baru je nak idup.. Sedor la sikit!!. Ke ko geram dgn aku after i kinda humiliated u in front of people who are obsess with ur so called stories? No matter who u are, what u do, what family or background u have, who are ur parents.. Its what u do shapes u into somebody..! God damn it!! Ur just a bunch of stupid and useless people..

I dun feel a thing actually coz i am no more in the picture over there.. Its just that what are u trying to prove here? Being nice in front of me and take advantage of my bloody trust!? Speaking to me as if u've nothing wrong and yet u fCUk me behind my back? Being a so friendly buddy when actually ur an a**hole in disguise? And yet u dunno that people are talking about u..

I just dun care anymore.. But just grow up.. Look at ur baby and that tummy u have with him or her inside of u, and wonder how are u bringing him up? Rumors.. That's all it is and it spread from u so fast, even Dato Sri Liow can't do anything to contain it!

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Anyway, next week is my wedding anniversary and it wouldn't get much worse.. I called (yup called, not via the net) the reservation of a highland resort to make booking which i was told is available on the said date.. Couple of days (yes, 2 days not immediately) later i got an email stating that my reservation have to be cancelled as they are full house...! WTF!?!? How do u do ur god forsaking work? U got people all excited and ready to go and then u dump them with a simple email stating that there's nothing that u can do.. What ever happened to human touch? A call would be nice though coz u made the stupid mistake!!!! Damn it!! Am now searching for alternatives.. Help!!!!!

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Bend It Like Him

Mana aci wei, main 30 min je!!

Beckham was announced as the man of the match in England's World Cup qualifying match against Belarus. Yes, he played only 30 min. The old dog set up a goal with his 1st touch and i guess that what makes him the man of the match.. pretty cool huh, for an old dog that is.. anyway, England has qualified for the play off and so has Argentina, a former champion waaaaaay back after a struggle in the group stage.. England won 9 out of 10 games the played.. And the only game they lost, i guess they deserved it.. They played like a bunch of school boys..! Frankly, i never look at England as a favorite, period!! Dunno why, but i guess its the publicity they have, too much of it..! And Italy, not in my list too... Model Jantan i call them, a bunch of pretty boys who's afraid of getting themselves dirty in the process.. But lets wait and see how these teams and other teams square off..

I dunno who team to cheer, so i guess i have to wait till the playoffs.. Cool huh? World Cup coming up, then the Euro.. What's next?!? Football is sure my heaven..

Note: Nothing to note today..!

fREEZe !!

In the previous post, i have mentioned that in applying changes some steps have to be followed.. Well, let me tell u abit on how to implement changes.. It may & may not work, depends on how people in ur organization perceive those changes..

Resistant to change is unavoidable, especially when ur facing a group of hardcore people that is used to doing things the way they do now.. To them what they're doing currently is the best approach in doing things.. But what they dun see is how good can that change bring to u.. That is what ur role comes in as a head unit or supervisor in ur group.. Nice huh? kalau kepala pon tamau berubah, mana nak buat perubahan pada org lain?!

Unfreezing - this steps is vital because u wanna take them outa their comfort zone of doing things the old ways.. Then, u wanna make them understand that what is happening is for the good of everyone.. Its hard enough if u wanna teach them new things, but its even harder making them stop what their doing.. Means, to make someone to stop doing things the old ways is definitely harder.. So, this part of the process u have to make them understand the new ways with training etc.. Guidelines, work process trees and even policies that will make them understand how things work from now on..

Changing - after making them put aside the old ways of doing stuff, u have to implement the changes. This definitely won't happen overnight but with sheer determination and commitment by the management team, staff will be made to understand and use the new of work.. Try posting up the work process tree at their work stations so that they can see how they gonna do this now.. When another group is resisting to this change, a small group might have excitement or even anticipation to this.. Work with that smaller group intensively.. Try use them to influence the others to accept the change.. Like it or not, the change is going to happen..

Refreezing - when everything is done, the change has taken place.. It may take u more than a month to do so, some even more than a year but that's all behind everyone now.. Make use of the situation, try making the new process an exciting one.. More training are needed, involve them in the development program on how to improve the process and make things even better. People work better when they're important.. But most of all, dun forget that this is a continuous process and it will not stop until u have done everything to make it work. Train, train and train them again..

Well, that's all for today class. Tetiba je aku jadi lecturer kat sini yea.. Berkongsi pengetahuan dan pengalaman tak rugi pun untuk aku.. Cheerio!

Note: Isz, lu mmg poyo!!